Her children Violeta and Damià have just turned three, and the journalist shared an Instagram post making a brief reflection on her life since she was a mother.
As always when he talks about motherhood, his statements do not go unnoticed because they are "politically incorrect" and because they reflect what many women think but dare not say: that motherhood is nothing ideal and that when children arrive, quality is lost of life.
Samantha is in full campaign to promote her new book "The feminine mental burden", on all the tasks of the family and the home environment that we assume exclusively as mothers, and how difficult it is for mothers to reconcile work and family life.
"It was the hardest thing I've ever lived"
On this day like today 3 years ago I started breastfeeding two bands after 30 hours of delivery. I had spent 4 years trying to have children. The first year of parenting was the hardest I've ever lived. It is very strong that I am exhausted and that my own life went to hell when they arrived but you tell me right now if I would do it again and do it a million times the same. Happy birthday loves of my life
After four years trying to have children, when he finally got pregnant and had his children in his arms, his life took a beastly turn, a change for the worse According to the journalist. Remembering the first year of his twins' life, Samantha remembers that it was the hardest thing he has ever lived and that his own life "went to hell".
A few days ago in an interview with The HuffPost he counted, with no hair on his tongue - as she usually says it all:
"Nor would I tell anyone that being a mother is the best thing in the world. If you decide not to have children you are not missing any happiness, you are missing what it is to have children and what is a parenting, but you are not more unhappy or depriving yourself of true happiness. "
In another interview with La Vanguardia on the occasion of the launch of his book, he has clearly confessed that:
"But of course my life is worse! In terms of quality of life, rest, freedom, absence of conflict and that everything flows objectively with parenting, everything is much worse. But people confuse this with being unhappy. "
In Babies and more, Santa Villar creates debate again by saying that if she had been told what motherhood is like, she would have said no"I would do it a million times the same"
But in the end, as happens to all mothers, despite the fatigue, the radical change that motherhood means to our lives and everything bad that we could have happened, if we had to choose, we would do it again a million times.
Like other times in which he has valued his motherhood, the comments of his followers were swift. He has received hundreds of support from mothers who feel identified with his experience, but there are also those who criticize his statements.
aid0t - Congratulations to your little ones! 💜 3 years now, how time goes by. You are wonderful Samantha, I thank you again for showing motherhood as many women lived, we have just spent the first year and I am already seeing some light after so long 😂
casalsserrano - I am also a breast of twins, and also of a child with special needs, and that from experience I tell you that if it is hard ... Having your child admitted with epileptic seizures is the worst in the world by far, that's why when Samantha was criticized , the parents of special children, we think that "maternity of healthy children" is not paid with anything ... And that complaints are unjustified ...
The truth is that each mother lives "her" motherhood in her own way and none should be criticized for saying how she feels or if her life has changed for the worse or for the better. Another thing is that you don't share your feeling. Do you feel identified with the way of conceiving the motherhood that Samantha has?
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