We could say that they exist seven ways to expect a child or rather, seven kinds of mothers who expect a child. There are pregnant women of the hypochondriac type, esoteric, compulsive, experienced, gluttonous, with total or first connection.
Those of hypochondriacal type are future moms who relate pregnancy to a form of disease, that is, they somatize anything that happens to them and everything seems to be a great obstacle, in short, they exaggerate their condition. They are usually women who like to attract attention and motherhood is an ideal excuse for this purpose. Be it a normal or cesarean delivery for them, it is a somewhat traumatic experience and an ideal source for creating complaints.
The hypochondriacal mother may actually be looking through her way of acting a little protection, protection and attention to her, so it is important to be by her side so that they do not feel any lack. Future moms with total connection are those who want to control all situations methodically and who try to learn from the new experiences they go through. This is a way to reduce and channel anxiety through more information, live a very intense pregnancy, monitor and write down all the tests performed, learn about them, frequently consult the doctor any questions.
Although also, this excess of information leads them to suffer some fears such as fear of gaining weight, not recovering their initial physical state and as a consequence, they undergo diets and perform all kinds of exercises for this purpose. They are determined women who tread safely, the assimilation of the information acquired makes them so.
A future experienced mother feels motherhood in a different way, the experience of a previous pregnancy makes her feel more secure, treating it as a transitional step. This does not mean that you do not experience pregnancy intensely, but the fact that you are knowledgeable about many aspects of it makes you seem a little colder with respect to the changes that your body undergoes and sometimes the character. Experience is a degree that helps them understand and know how to act in the face of different problems that may arise.
On the contrary, a first-time mother, despite feeling great happiness with her pregnancy, also feels great anguish. Interpret pregnancy as the advance on a path already written, classifying by stages and learning to be mothers. They are unaware of many facts but are usually open to receiving new experiences to live according to their personality. They grow with their new experiences and feel proud to face motherhood by sharing their experiences with other moms.
The future gluttonous mother takes advantage of this state to eat everything, giving free rein to her wishes. Previously, when they were not pregnant, they deprived themselves of eating some things and certain amounts, but now thanks to pregnancy they relax with themselves and set aside the self-control that characterized them. This is not bad as long as you feed properly and do not take excessive weight, so a dose of self-control is necessary to have a healthy baby and be able to return to your usual physical state. It is good to have some small taste but always without abuse.
An esoteric pregnant woman is the one who always seeks the guidance of something external to alleviate the anguish caused by insecurity. They are women who try to anticipate events and need to have some control over what is happening. Life is not something predestined, some events are just a product of what they want to see, following the advice of a tarotist, a seer, books of an esoteric nature is not the most advisable. Although it must also be said that these moms are very affectionate and try to have a great connection with their children and are less anxious, since everything usually turns out as they expect.
Finally, the future compulsive mother is the one who tries to avoid interacting intensely with pregnancy and is anxious about other aspects, such as work, personal feelings or social contacts. They try to maintain a life similar to the one they had before being pregnant, for them work in the company is essential, strong in character and not letting their feelings glimpse so as not to show weakness. They are mothers with a lot of energy and great confidence in themselves, but they have not learned an important thing, take time for them and leave aside a little the life they led until they became pregnant.
Being a mother is something wonderful that contains new experiences, new feelings, it is a path that is traveled with intensity, a little of each way of being a mother is the ideal combination to feel full and satisfied.
